November 23rd, 2006
I will if you will
I’ve noticed I use the word “crazy” a lot. Despite my attempts to use language precisely, that’s one imprecision that’s stuck with me. I was called on it a couple months ago and I’ve been paying attention my fairly frequent automatic use of it since then. Even though I’ve been aware of the way it’s used to stigmatize women with “mental illness,” I haven’t taken the time to think about how else I might express myself. So I’m pledging to watch it, and to think up more accurate terminology to express what I really mean–which usually has nothing to do with sanity (see below).
In return, I want to ask my sister bloggers (and anybody else, really) to rethink your use of the word “lame” as a synonym for bad, stupid, loserish, etc. I loved someone who couldn’t walk; her legs not working did not change the fact that she was an amazing person, and every time I read or hear the word “lame” used as an epithet–when what is meant has nothing to do with mobility impairment–I just cringe all over. So please. Help me out here.
Words to use instead of “crazy”
wild
unusual
unreasonable
odd
illogical
Words to use instead of “lame”
cheesy
obnoxious
bogus
loserish
pathetic
Oh, I know there are more, but I’m tired.
What do you think?
